Profiles in Community

Norma W. Andrew (Groves): A Life Well-Lived

"Norma’s sense of humor was ever-present; her laughter infectious; her loving support of family constant."

Norma Winnifred Andrew (Groves), age 97, passed away in Phoenix, Arizona on August 31, 2021.

Born June 1, 1924 to parents Arthur William Henry Groves and Winnifred Edith Groves (Brown) of Orillia, Ontario, Canada, Norma was the eldest daughter among seven siblings.

She was interred at St. Andrews and St. James Cemetery in Orillia on October 2, 2021.

Norma’s first job was in Orillia as a Bell Telephone of Canada switchboard operator, where she worked her first year after high school. In 1943, at age 19, she enlisted in the Canadian Women’s Army Corps, serving in Vancouver, British Columbia before meeting and marrying U.S. Army veteran Robert E. Soden of Seattle, Washington after the war.

She was the mother of three children: Roberta Soden Brill, Marybeth Claire Gottshall and Timothy Soden-Groves.

Norma traveled the world as a U.S. Army wife from 1950 to 1968, packing up and moving her young family to Germany (1954-1956), Korea (1962-1965) and many military assignments around the United States, including Fort Leonard Wood MO, Fort Belvoir VA, Fort Carson CO, Ames IA and Detroit MI.

At age 38, Norma received her Bachelor of Science degree in Modern Languages from Iowa State University, where she was a member of Phi Kappa Phi, graduating with honors in 1962.

As an undergraduate, Norma loved to tutor English Composition students at Iowa State University. She often invited her students to the family residence in Ames for a home-cooked meal, giving her young children the opportunity to get to know diverse students and student-athletes from all over the country.

After college she continued this tradition, hosting families and friends from different cultures around the world while traveling, living and learning widely.

She later worked as a proofreader and editor at Iowa State University Press and – after moving back to her beloved Canada – she worked as an editor for both IBM Press and publisher Prentice Hall in Toronto.

Her second marriage was to Gordon Andrew of Orillia, Ontario. Norma and Gord retired to their beautiful stone cottage on Lake Simcoe’s Moon’s Bay, just outside of Orillia.

Norma loved languages and she loved to write. When an important occasion came up – a son or daughter completing a marathon, the birth of a great-grandson, or the passing of a parent – she would write a poem about it. At age 80, she re-learned the German language for a river cruise down the Danube with her two daughters as they revisited the Europe they remembered from the 1950’s.

Norma’s sense of humor was ever-present; her laughter infectious; her loving support of family constant. When her little granddaughter filled her favorite china teapot with toads, Norma just laughed and proudly told others that the child had discovered a practical new use for good china. At tearful family farewells the sophisticated and always-gracious Norma would break the tension with a sly smile while offering up an obscene hand gesture as a final wave goodbye, leaving everyone in stitches as they went their way.

Preceding her in death were her parents Arthur and W. Edith Groves; siblings Claire Groves, Katherine Whittaker, Elwood Groves, Ken Groves and Isobel Langlois; husband Gordon Andrew and daughter Marybeth Claire Gottshall. She is survived by brother Brian Edwin Groves; children Roberta Soden Brill and Timothy Soden-Groves; grandchildren Karin Gottshall and Benjamin Brill; and great-grandchildren Henri and Julien Brill.

A video, “Norma Winnifred Andrew (Groves): A Life Well-Lived,” chronicles Norma’s life with a century of photographs capturing the wonderful 97-year lifespan, laughter and world travels of the eldest daughter of Arthur and Edith Groves of Orillia, Ontario, Canada.

8 comments on “Norma W. Andrew (Groves): A Life Well-Lived

  1. Tracey Lamb

    Lovely Tribute to her Life Well Lived

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  2. Helen Archer Givens


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  3. Fran Douglas

    Goodness Gracious…..what a precious tribute to your sweet mother ‘A Life well Lived’. Our condolences, peace and comfort through this time of continued transition of loss. Sincerely, fran & jim

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  4. Debbie Lowe

    Wow! What a great tribute to your mom! Pictures and music bring back a lot of memories.

    I am your second cousin. Your grandfather and my grandmother (Edith Ion nee Groves) were brother and sister.
    I spent a lot of time at Moon’s Beach and also at your Grandparents home in Orillia.
    Song about Art was all so true.
    How may I get a copy of that lovely song?
    Debbie Lowe(Groves)
    Cobourg Ontario.

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    • Hi Debbie,
      It’s very nice to hear from you and to realize family ties are wider than I knew!
      I’m pleased that you like the song about my grandpa, Arthur Groves.
      Please email me at and I will reply with the mp3 file, “Arthur Groves,” attached.


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